Do you remember why you started your business?
That idea? That thing that you knew was going to impact so many lives; change things for people; offer them a service that was going to make their lives easier?
You KNEW it would work. So many people were struggling and you had the solution.
You dreamt about it. Plucked up the courage to bring it to fruition. Left your 9 – 5, in some cases borrowed money to set it all up, trained, had all your systems in place and you had to get visible. Getting visible is not easy is it? But you did it despite all your fears…..
What will my friends think?
Who am I?
Do I even know what I’m doing?
Will people laugh at me?
Will this work?
Will I fail?
Am I being a dreamer and living in ‘cloud cuckoo land’?
Am I cut out for this?
HOWEVER, despite all of this you went out there, you started to tell the world what you do, even though you cringed every time you did your Facebook lives, you posted on social media worrying that there will be a tumble weed of likes and hearts, but never the less you carried on. Trying to find your audience, looking for the people who are your dream clients and trying to make the income you desired.
BUT THEN THE THING HAPPENED
- Things just don’t go as you’d hoped.
- Your ideas feel like they are failing.
- You are struggling to pay the bills.
- You are feeling shocked by the trolls.
- Your colleagues who you thought were friends have turned on you, the very people you trusted and thought were part of your inner circle.
- The bullying, that you know people are saying things that are untrue about you behind your back and to your face.
- You are being painted in bad light because they feel threatened by your presence.
- They are projecting their stuff onto you.
- Your clients refuse to take responsibility and start to turn things round on you.
The bullying, the feelings of failure, the constant worry about money, the feelings of guilt – all of this a far cry from the dream you had at the beginning.
It leaves you HEARTBROKEN, FROZEN, and unable to take action.
THE FALLOUT IS HUGE!
On the top layer it affects our whole lives:
- Our Diet
- Stress levels- sometimes leading to burnout and serious health consequences
- Mental Health
- Visibility (how much we are willing to show up online and how)
- Income levels
- Self belief
- Our creativity and course and content creation
On a deeper level it makes us re-live all your past hurts and losses in a major way. You know what I mean, all the things we have pushed through, tried to make a success of our businesses despite what happened:
- The bullying in childhood, the playground or the work place
- The abandonment
- The abuse
- The death of a loved one
- The death of a not so loved one
- The difficult relationships with your parents
- The failures at school or university
- The betrayals and so much more.
You will begin to relive all of this as it remains unhealed inside of you.
IT BECOMES A BATTLE TO CARRY ON
You go back to your younger self and the feelings you experienced then:
- I am not safe
- I am not good enough
- No one loves me
- No one wants me
- I am not clever enough
- I am not the right size
- I don’t have what it takes
- I dont fit in
- This is not for people like me
You have started comparing yourself to others and feeling like an imposter, this leads you to start chasing the wrong things, investing in course after course, coach after coach, yet nothing improves it.
You start believing all the ‘BS’ beliefs of your childhood and fall down that horrible trap of self destruction, addictions and bad habits. Destroying yourself and your business at the same time.
I INVITE YOU TO HEAL AND RISE FROM ALL OF THIS.
This is all grief and loss.
I invite you to come and work with me on a one to one basis on my Heal & Rise Program.
It’s a practical, action taking program that will help you heal from your hurts, trauma, and losses and allow you to walk through the doorway of EMOTIONAL FREEDOM.
The results you can expect:
- You will step into that confidence of knowing that you are enough, you will be confident enough to be you, exactly as you are in all your glory.
- You will feel safe to show up! Be visible and proud knowing you are good enough and what you can bring to your clients.
- Your business will flourish because you will flourish.
No more hiding, no more questioning yourself, not accepting anyones transference of pain and their issues. You will learn all about boundaries and how to protect yourself, and you will learn exactly how important self care is, and how it is not a fluffy concept but a life preserving one!
My promise to you: I will help you heal from all the pain and loss you have suffered. In turn you will experience:
SELF BELIEF, which will lead to ACTION, which in turn will lead to THE LIFE AND SUCCESS YOU DESIRE.
Come and work with me on an action taking course to heal from what happened to you in your business and create emotional freedom for yourself, which will help you create the life and business you desire.
It’s a 10 week program with 10 weekly sessions one to one with me. It will be a step by step process and you will have tasks to do in-between our sessions.
We can work in person or online via Zoom, the results will be the same.
If this is for you and you are ready to take action that will move you forward, to gain practical tools you can apply throughout the rest of your life to stay emotionally heathy and create the life you desire email me on firstname.lastname@example.org and lets set up a call.
It’s time to Heal & Rise business owners, your clients are waiting for you and they need what you have to offer, don’t let your past stop you anymore,